Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Cat steals socks!

Some stories are just too funny not to link to!

http://optimistworld.com/Cat-owners-leaflet-neighbours-after-pet-steals-fifty-socks/

Marshall Alexander paper toys

The cool thing about paper toys are that they are fun to make and fun to play with! All you need is some paper, a color printer, scissors (or craft knife with cutting mat) and glue. Not all of these toys are easy to make, or suitable for young children, but they are pretty cheap, considering the fact that many of the templates and instructions can be downloaded for free. For the most part, I love visiting Canon CREATIVE PARK, but today, I found another site for paper toys: Marshall Alexander! The best part about Marshall Alexander's designs are that they use only one sheet of paper to create. Check it out:

http://members.chello.nl/m.egtberts2/library.html

Ribbon wreath

Here's a project that is not only simple, easy and pretty quick to whip up, but also looks quite nice! I haven't considered using any wreaths for my wedding decor, but if I change my mind, I'll definitely keep this project in mind:

http://www.i-do-it-yourself.com/2009/10/diy-grosgrain-ribbon-wreath/

Hello Hanna placemats

I am not really a fan of placemats. I like them when they're pretty, but it doesn't make cleanup any faster or easier, in my opinion. It certainly dresses up the table, which is nice, but it's not something that I consider necessary or even very desirable. That is, until I saw placemats from Hello Hanna! They look so cute and fun that I felt an instant attraction for them.

However, there are a couple of things that hold me back from taking the plunge and splurging on them. First, they are made of uncoated cardstock, which means they're probably not going to last you very many meals. I prefer placemats that are infinitely reusable, or close to it. Lol! Second, I personally believe that there should be few distractions at the meal table. Mealtime is when we all focus on each other and actually have a real conversation. That means, no cellphones, no TV and no toys. The Hello Hanna placemats can definitely qualify as a toy for the meal table.

Having said all that, I still can't get away from oogling them! They are just so cute! Curious yet? Check it out for yourself:

http://hellohanna.com/index.php

Chair from single sheet of plywood

I think this chair is so cool!

http://www.treehugger.com/files/2009/10/sheetseat.php?dcitc=th_rss

Microwave chocolate cake in a mug: Update

I didn't get to try this one out. Turns out, after the awesome birthday dinner, we were too stuffed to eat anymore! Now, my sweet tooth cravings have pretty much stopped calling, so I am no longer motivated to make this. I guess I'll save the recipe for some other time then. :-)

Monday, October 19, 2009

Microwave chocolate cake in a mug

For a few days now, I've been craving something sweet and decadent. I've finished our small tub of ice cream, which was sooooo yummy, and have taken to adding an extra bit of sugar to my daily coffee in an effort to assuage my sweet tooth. It worked for a little while, but then it hit me this past weekend that I wanted a chocolate cake! Unfortunately, baking a whole chocolate cake means I'll be munching on that all week, unlike having a mere spoonful per day of ice cream. I really just wanted one small slice and not have to worry about finishing the leftovers, causing me to completely ruin my diet.

Then I came across a cake recipe you can make in your mug using a microwave! It's perfect because it's a small portion that I can share with my fiance, it's fast and easy to make and it's made from scratch. Perfect! Previous recipes required using those powdered cake mixes, which I haven't used in a few years now and have no intention of using again.

The timing is also perfect as it is something I can make tonight for my fiance's birthday. Yay! Of course, it might turn out horribly since I've never made this before and there won't be any chance to tweak the recipe. Also, you should know that despite its small portion, it is by no means a low-calorie snack. In fact, the recipe below is for two servings, at about 400 calories per serving. Anyways, here's the recipe:

4 tbsp flour
4 tbsp sugar
2 tbsp unsweetened cocoa
1 egg
3 tbsp milk
3 tbsp vegetable oil
pinch of salt
pinch of baking powder
few drops of vanilla extract

Spray mug (recommend a really big one, like a big pyrex cup) with cooking spray, or rub a tiny bit of butter on the surface and sprinkle with flour. Mix all the wet ingredients separately from the dry ingredients. Add wet ingredients to dry and mix. Try not to over-mix. Pour into baking mug and place in microwave. Set the microwave for 3 minutes, but most likely the cake will be done before the time is up. Experiment a little and it's important not to overcook the cake.

Some changes I'll make to the recipe when I try it out tonight:
Add a pinch of instant coffee to enhance the chocolate flavor
Since I'm not sure if my baking powder is still good, I may have to replace it with baking soda and a drops of cider vinegar

If this turns out well, I might try replacing some of the oil with applesauce and/or replacing the egg with agar agar powder. Wish me luck!

Friday, October 9, 2009

America's work culture - no vacations!

In the U.S., the standard number of vacation days per year is 10, and you're one of the lucky ones if they're all paid vacation days. In Europe, it's almost unheard of to get less than 20 paid vacation days. In the U.S., you are expected to show that you're totally devoted to the company, which often means pulling long hours, working through your weekends and vacations, or not taking your vacation days at all! In our current uncertain times and the lack of job security, people are working their rear ends off to avoid the chopping block, as if our work culture wasn't bad enough before. Even before our current economic crisis, people felt they're less likely to be rewarded with a raise or a promotion unless they have no life but the life of devotion to work.

Yet with all our miserable days and hours spent working, our productivity levels are not way higher than a country with a more relaxed approach towards life and work. Considering that we're not getting better results and individual burn-out is more prevalent here, I don't think our work culture is an ideal one. It's hard to avoid the pressure of collective attitudes, but I really feel that we need some tweaking here. I mean companies should start encouraging people to take their vacations and to take one should not be in any way construed as slacking on the job. Your work life shouldn't be your entire life. That also means working during your vacation should absolutely not be allowed. These are just some of the thoughts that popped up when I started reading this article:

http://www.wisebread.com/america-is-the-no-vacation-nation

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Invitations, part 3

Okay, so I talked previously about how I started working on my invitations. So far, I've scored and folded about a hundred sheets of cardstock, most of which has had its edge punched out.

Once I've finished punching out the edges, I'll have to start cutting and pasting on the pockets.

I've also printed out half the wording pages. I spent a lot of time designing the wording page, tinkering with the images and downloading free brushes and fonts from the internet. I ended up use a cherry blossom brush for the purple flowers, Chopin Script font for our names, Curlz MT font for the venue name and regular Times New Roman for everything else.

I guess I'll print out the other half tonight. Once the pockets are pasted into the covers, I'll start stamping the wording pages and then paste them into the covers.

I still have to do the inserts...

The art of having insecurities thrust upon you

Let's face it, we live in a consumerist culture, meaning we like to buy or "consume" things. As a group, we feel the need to consume things in order to obtain a fleeting moment of what we think is happiness. These days everything you see is geared to get you to buy something. So how do they get millions of people to buy billions of dollars of stuff they generally don't need? I mean, do I really need to have another dress hanging in my closet? Do I really need to get that awesome-smelling soap shaped like the most adorable flower for some exorbitant amount of money? The answer is simply no, I don't need those things, but I want those things. How did it get that way? Marketing!

I remember when I took a marketing class in college, they mention the different ways a company can sell their product. If a product is useful and definitely people need it to carry out certain useful functions, the company has to find a way to get the message out that their product can help and is better than all the competitors' products. However, what if a product serves no useful purpose? What if there is no need for it whatsoever? What if no one ever even thought about using such a thing before? Meaning, what if there is no market for it? Well, a good marketing company makes a market and creates a need for it. So how do you get someone to buy something they probably think is useless or a waste of money, if left to their own devices? You play upon their insecurities.

If you think about it, we are bombarded by ads everywhere we go, everywhere we look. From magazines, to the radio, to the TV, to the internet, everyone is marketing something. They all have the same message: You're a loser and are totally inadequate, and if you buy our stuff it will fill the hole you've been trying to fill your whole life. They fill you with completely unrealistic images that we're supposed to strive to achieve and since the "perfect" life being the "perfect" person doesn't exist, we are ALWAYS left feeling insecure and inadequate. But it's not just any image of perfection they want you to strive for, but theirs. It has to be theirs because they want you to buy their stuff. Those beautiful models on magazine covers, the men in luxury cars driving on an empty road, the great fun people seem to have drinking certain brands of alcohol - these images are not just selling the product, but selling an idea and/or image. The implication is that you are just not good enough or you are not happy unless you buy our stuff. The implication is, you're a loser because the car you currently own makes you a loser and that's why you're not as happy as that man in the commercial.

For example, one of the commercials that ALWAYS ticks me off are those Kay Jeweler commercials because their slogan is "Every kiss begins with Kay." The slogan says to the man that no woman could ever want or love him unless he gives her expensive jewelry, which implies that he just ain't good enough to get a woman to love him without bribing her and so implies that women are materialistic gold-diggers. At the same time, the commercial is telling women that your man don't love you unless he gives you expensive jewelry and that's why you should kiss him. This leads men to buy the most expensive, ugly jewelry ever for their girls and have no idea why the girl doesn't wear it! To quote a friend of mine after her boyfriend proudly presented her with a gift, "Just because it's Tiffany's doesn't mean it's pretty."

Another commercial that ticks me off are those hair loss ones. They're flat out telling the guys that they're ugly, unwanted and totally unattractive unless they have hair. It's pretty sick. I mean, the poor dude is probably already embarrassed about the hair loss and now there's a commercial saying, "Yes, you are indeed a totally undesirable, disgusting loser because you're balding so go buy our stuff cause it will make you into everything you've always wanted to be!" What they don't tell you is that it might not work and all you're left with is this burning feeling of inadequacy, making you even more desperate to "solve" the issue.

Of course, most of the time, we tune out these commercials as silly. I only get riled up when I deconstruct this stuff and realize just how much of this kind of messaging is out there. It's unavoidable and if you are constantly told that you're inadequate, you can't help but be affected no matter how hard you try to ignore it.

The truth is, even the most naturally beautiful person in the whole world isn't beautiful enough because our idea of beauty simply doesn't exist. The idea of natural beauty no longer exists because what's natural isn't beautiful anymore. The same goes for the brilliant lifestyle marketing sells. Don't we all want to be like those impossibly beautiful, popular people in the drinking commercials at a fancy bar, laughing and having the best time? It's an impossible life with impossible people, which means that no matter how much we buy and how much we spend, we will never be satisfied. We are so bombarded by images of youthful beauty and youthful enthusiasm that we forget that youthful enthusiasm often is reckless and impulsive and gets us into trouble. We cannot accept that it's okay for youthful beauty to fade, so we buy thousands of dollars of stuff to make us age more slowly, yet none of that stuff buys us less misery and more wisdom. Whatever happiness we feel is fleeting until the next upkeep appointment or the next sign of aging sprouts up. I feel like nobody knows how to age gracefully anymore. After all, reckless and impulsive enthusiasm gets people to buy more stuff than pragmatic, equanimous wisdom.


I, myself, find myself getting caught up in my insecurities and see my mentality shifting as I'm going about my wedding planning process. Things that didn't bother me as much before now takes on epic proportions. The idea that we have to look absolutely stunning on our wedding day is putting an impossible amount of pressure on me because all my physical and imagined physical flaws are "ruining" the "perfect" future moment. The truth is, what will be, will be. I cannot control the weather and I cannot keep my eyes from protruding due to my medical condition. So most likely, I'll look like a frog in many of my photos, but what can I do? Nothing. So I shouldn't worry, right? I know I shouldn't, but I do anyways. That's how powerful the Wedding Industrial Complex is. I had immersed myself in  thinking I could resist its powerful pull to spend loads of money on the "Look at ME!" mentality, but now I realize that resistance is harder than I imagined. If I could do things all over again, I might do them a little differently by worrying less about having a picture perfect wedding and more about taking it easy!

The thing is I started out taking it easy and became more stressed as I looked at more magazines and wedding sites. See what I mean about having insecurity thrust upon you? I mean how you would have been fine and happy had someone not told you that a "good" wedding has certain "must have" things. So you go out and buy this "must have" thing after recovering from the initial sticker shock, only to be left with a vague feeling of dissatisfaction. So you think, oh no! Did I not buy enough "must have" things? Is my wedding going to be "cheesy?" and will people judge me to be a bad, tasteless person forever because I didn't get matching napkins for this one day!?!!? Sounds kinda funny, doesn't it? Well it's not funny to the person freaking out at the moment. Maybe the trick is to constantly step back and try to remember the big picture whenever I start worrying. After all, at the end of the day, the most important thing is that you're married!

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Fashion magazine goes model-less

All I can say is, "Whoo hoo!" That's one less magazine in the world telling women they're inadequate cause they don't look like a woman that doesn't exist! Be proud of being REAL! Feel beautiful inside and out without dousing yourself with a million chemicals! Be a part of Operation Beautiful!

http://www.thelocal.de/national/20091005-22367.html

Office in the woods

How many times have I dreamed about taking my laptop to a nearby park to work when the weather's nice? Countless times! I know I'm not the only one who longs to work in an environment filled with greenery on nice summer days. So how about working in an office in the woods? Check out this work space!

http://www.planet-mag.com/blog/2009/architecture/ryan-grim/office-in-the-woods/#http://www.planet-mag.com/blog/2009/architecture/ryan-grim/office-in-the-woods/

Chocolate powered race car

I saw this article and... well it's weird and amazing and the techniques used to make it probably isn't sustainable, but hey, what do I know? Lol!

http://www.informationweek.com/news/showArticle.jhtml?articleID=217300279

Monday, October 5, 2009

Homemade nonstick cooking spray

My fiance is a fan of Pan nonstick cooking spray. Growing up, the only time my mother used Pan was when she was baking a cake. As for me, I stopped using it years ago, preferring to use oil and flour in my baking pans instead. I've also seen some people use it to spray their griddle when making pancakes. I usually smear a thin coat of oil onto the pan with an oily napkin. Still, I suppose a nonstick spray can be convenient to have around, especially if your fiance likes it! To make your own, you will need liquid lecithin, which isn't something you can find in a regular supermarket. My local health food store has soy lecithin, but it's not something that I would have thought to purchase until I saw this recipe:

http://tipnut.com/homemade-non-stick-spray-recipes/

So considering the fact that I'd have to purchase something soley for this purpose, I'm not inclined to make this. Honestly, I see no need to use non-stick spray, but if ever I'm doing a project that needs it, I'll try to keep this recipe in mind. :-)

Homemade glue

When I think of kids' glue, the memories of my classmates sniffing Elmers and "rexo" sheets pop up. Those were to days, no? Well, now they say sniffing those rexo sheets probably wasn't good for you and now the schools no longer use them. What about Elmer's glue? I still have a bottle lying around somewhere, and yes, I still occasionally use it. It's fun stuff and no one's debunked their claims of being non-toxic yet.

However, what if you've got an artsy-craftsy kid around and you forgot to get a bottle of Elmer's?! What if you just don't have time to run to a far way stationery story to get it? Well then, make your own!

The recipe below uses flour, sugar, water and vinegar:
http://ecochildsplay.com/2009/02/26/homemade-glue-for-kids-crafts/

You can also make rice glue by boiling a cup of rice with 3 to 4 cups of water for about 45 minutes. This is the glue that's traditionally used to make kanzashi flowers (japanese fabric flowers). It's also the stuff used to glue the Great Wall together. Yeah, I mean The Great Wall of China. Talk about standing the test of time! It also means that this is probably a very old way of making glue in asia. I've also seen my dad use it to glue our passport photos onto our application. Apparently, it worked cause we got our passports later. Lol!

When you think about it, both glue recipes use items that create a paste or mix of starch and sugar. Think about how sticky dried foodstuffs are, like spilled soda, and you might think about how soda would make a great glue! In any case, I'm sure both recipes work well as glues. Enjoy!

Castile soap

There are lots of information out there on "green" cleaning products and how to make your own. Sometimes, I get lazy and/or I forget to mix and bottle a batch or buy an ingredient. When that happens, I'll reach for some liquid castile soap. There are lots of brands of castile soap these days, and if you're into making your own soap, it's also a pretty simple recipe to work with. If making your own, make sure you get the cheap olive pomace oil cause the extra virgin stuff takes next to never to reach trace!

Now, before I go further, I want to clarify some things. "Castile soap" can mean different things to different people. Traditionally, castile soap was made with nothing but olive oil. For some people, a soap isn't truly "castile" if it isn't all olive oil. For many companies that market castile soap, "castile" just means a vegan or vegetarian soap. So although olive oil is still a big ingredient for some of these companies, their recipe is usually a mix of vegetable oils. Many of the popular commercial soaps cannot be considered vegan or vegetarian because it contains animal fat, such as lard and/or tallow. Lard is a very popular ingredient for soaps because it creates a very nice, moisturizing, skin conditioning soap. Tallow creates nice, rich, creamy lather and also has good skin conditioning properties. For me, I use vegetarian soaps in my household as a part of my personal practice in harm reduction. Otherwise, my biggest concern with commercial soaps are all the weird ingredients in it.

So what kind of castile soap do I use? I like Dr. Bronner's brand of castile soap, even though the label is weird and crazy and sounds kind of cult-like. If that's an issue, you can try a different brand, but so far, I like Dr Bronner's the best. I like it because it's popular enough that I can find it almost anywhere in the city and because the ingredients list is simple. Granted, it is not a true castile soap because it's not made from olive oil only, but some will argue that true castile soap is not as "rounded" a soap as a mixture of oils. I've read that true castile soap can create suds that feel... slimy. Lol! So for now, my favorite pre-made all-purpose soap and cleaner is Dr. Bronner's liquid soap. I prefer the Baby Mild, unscented kind because I can add my own scents or essential oils if I wanted, but my fiance likes the Peppermint scented one. My only real issue with Dr. Bronner's is the price. It's not cheap, so it can feel like an indulgence when I get it from my local health foods store. However, I did find an online site that sells it for a lot cheaper than I've seen anywhere else.

It's called vitacost.com and I can get a gallon of Dr. Bronner's soap shipped to my place for under 40 bux! Normally, I'd have to buy it at a local health food store and pay 50 to 60 bux and then still have to lug it home. I'm not going to say that buying it at vitacost means Dr. Bronner's will be cheaper than another brand of liquid soap, but it definitely makes it more cost effective for my purposes. I like having it around, but I have other cleaning materials at my disposal. If I were to actually use this stuff for everything, I'd have to buy lots more of it!

Fabric scrap necklace


http://www.flickr.com/photos/mereteveian/ / CC BY-SA 2.0

For someone who hasn't been sewing very long, I sure have a lot of scrap fabric lying around! At first, I was throwing away the smaller scraps and saving the larger scraps for future use, though I have no idea what I'd use them for yet. I thought about making change purses, or quilts or headbands. Then, I found a tutorial for a scrap fabric necklace and thought, "Hey, that's something I might actually wear and it will use up some of my smaller scraps!" Brilliant!

http://blog.craftzine.com/archive/2009/06/how-to_tuesdays_fabric_scrap_n.html

Beer Can Solar Heater

I think this is a really cool project, but I'm not sure how well it would work in the winter around here. I think I would be more inclined to make this is if it didn't block light from coming in through a window and if it were more... attractive. The blockage of sunlight is a big concern here since living in an apartment often means that you probably don't get a whole lot of windows with lots of sun to begin with. Still, a passive heater that can lower your heating bills for free can be an attractive thing.

http://www.squidoo.com/beercansolarheater

Friday, October 2, 2009

Body sugaring instead of waxing



In the last year or so, on and off, I get into these moods where I become enamored of the idea of not having to buy any more razors. I don't particularly like the fact that I have to keep buying more as they dull and I don't like the fact that the ones I like aren't cheap! So far the only alternatives I've heard of are waxing and body sugaring, both of which involve pulling the hairs out. Ouch! On top of that, I've been told that the stuff found in the wax you use to wax yourself is filled with nasty chemicals. Double ouch! As for body sugaring, it's a method you can do at home with some cotton strips and supplies in your pantry, so it involves no weird chemicals. As for the ouch factor? Some reviewers say it hurts the same as waxing and some say it hurts less than waxing. I guess it depends on your pain tolerance and the way you pull it? I dunno, but if you're wondering how to do it, here it is!

http://planetgreen.discovery.com/food-health/care2-hair-removal-sugaring.html

Carmelizing veggies



I love, love carmelized onions! Usually, I'll just cook them in some veggie oil until they turn translucent brown, or when their natural sugars carmelize. I've never carmelized anything green like brussels sprouts though. I think it's because there's just not enough natural sugars in there to do what you can do with onions. In general, I'll usually just stir fry the veggies and enjoy their flavor. Sometimes, I'll add a commercial stir fry sauce made from mushrooms, or I'll add garlic or soy sauce. Today, I learned a new way to cook veggies. Carmelize them with balsamic vinegar! Yum!

http://planetgreen.discovery.com/food-health/kids-eat-greens-carmelized.html